How To Move On
7:39 PMMoving on is clearly something I suck at. But I think I have finally mastered it, the art that is moving on. This may or may not work for you, it really depends on your heart and how open it is to letting go of those emotions and feelings. Here are three steps that could help you...
1. Eliminate any thoughts of him/her!
This is actually the key to all of this, delete all of those sad breakup songs that just remind you of his hair, his lips okay? Also, throw out anything that reminds you of them! Delete them from your social life, if you think you guys are good as friends skip this step but if they hurt you real bad kick them out like right now! Whenever your brain seems to have flashbacks of thoughts of them, tell yourself that they can not exist in your life anymore.
2. Focus on you.
It's the perfect time to focus on improving, growing as a person. Pick up a new hobby, try to set goals, learn a new skill. Use this time alone to grow as a human being. Don't be focused on finding someone to replace them. It's not going to work that way, forced relationships never work out. Focus on being the best you. Focus on loving yourself and creating who you want to be.
3. Finding someone new
You are now ready to head back out there to find someone that loves you for who you are. The most common fall back is trying to find someone that's just like the last guy/girl. Don't do it. Find someone that understands, respects who you are.
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